Will you still love me??

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My dear friend made a very good post today on her blog lonely lesbian and well this speaks to not only a homosexual relationship but also applies for heterosexual relationships also. I mean when your looking for that someone to be able to spend the rest of your life with what is it that your looking for? Are they beautiful? Are they good in bed? Do they know how to cook? There are soo many things that can help us in determining "The One" but I think you when your asking yourself these questions your should throw this one out there too. If the looks, sex, cooking is no more will I still want to be with this person? FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE? Yea, cause the look change, the sex yes it changes and the cooking well normally I think if your a good cooker that doesn't change but you shouldn't commit cause of that lol. Anyway get my point? Once those superficial things are gone, will the love still be there? Will you still want to be with that person for the rest of your life? The answer better be yes, or your in big trouble! And even though I will be the first to admit sex does have a big impact on your relationship it is not by any means the rock of the relationship. So iamfiction I think your quest to find love is being driven by the right things! Don't give up and one day you will find that someone. Sorry cutting it short running out of time lol. Laters!

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  1. NicholeFebruary 21, 2009 at 6:36 PM

    You're very right. When all that stuff is gone, you better still want to be with that person. Otherwise you're just doomed.

    Thanks chica. Your words mean a lot to me. And I won't give up. Not now, not ever. :)

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